Disapproved

If you ever felt that you were dissatisfying others? Or needed to defend yourself? This short post is for you.

I left the house for a few hours… I felt like I had to like everyone was attacking me (Luke included) with their dissatisfaction. So I stepped away and with a different perspective, I was able to accept some of what was said and not accept a lot of it. After I made peace with my choices I no longer needed anyone’s approval and I arrived to continue the conversation less sensitive and therefore more open to hearing others without making it about me. YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO SOLVE A PROBLEM THAT IS NOT YOURS! I had to remind myself what, in this situation, is MY problem, what’s on me to solve, and what will be a waste of my energy.